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Friends?

So, last night I posted about my ex....its all too funny that he actually contacted me today! He wants to be friends!! Um, hello....why???
Can someone please answer that for me and explain WHY someone would want to be friends with an ex that there didn't even seem to be any sort of lasting bond with? We weren't friends prior to dating, so why would we be friends after dating? I don't understand this concept of trying to be friends wth an ex....it leads to more heartache and just isn't healthy. I feel like ats an easy way to hang on to an idea of love rather than being in love. Its a lazy mans way through heartbreak... Right? Is being friends with an ex possible?
Thoughts, feedback, opinions?

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  1. TracyDecember 10, 2015 at 9:53 PM

    I can't do anything but giggle a little and shake my head. No no no, just no.
    Are their times it can work, yes. But it depends on the relationship before and how things ended. In your case, no no no....no.

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  2. Yellow RoseDecember 11, 2015 at 12:58 AM

    Lol, thanks Tracy. I knooowwww!!!!

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